No OverPowering...
What are needed for a relationship to last?I believe that in order for a relationship to last,it should start in a friendship,like many said,Friendship is the best foundation for a great relationship...Because on that stage,the guy and the girl would really show the real them and would really get to know each other...Trust,Loyalty,Honesty,Love,Maturity are some ingredients of a successful relationship... Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another,or demands too much...People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage...Actually,this is not the case...There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person ' s character." It is not easy to change...Thus,having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness..It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations...Accepting and believing each other for who and what they are is so important too,for with out it a relationship will not last also...
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i completely agree
and i also believe that if a person do want to change, he/she is the only person who can change himself/herself, not other people. He/she need to make the effort and willing to change...